Update: It seem in my haste I did not notice that after all was said and done, my server now had no internet. I worked locally so I had no idea. After finding out that, the fix was simple(ish). After trial and error, I bridged the 2 nics together (br0) and it was working, however the internal ip was changed and I had a new mac address on my router, I just reset the nic (after bridging under the imbedded nic, it is the only one editable) in my router to its original settings. Will update if anymore issues arise.
Thanks for the help. Looks like I did everything right the first time, except I need to run 6.9 Beta to get the right drivers for the Realtek RTL8125 according to some other other forum inquires. Not sure if this is why they wont talk to each other, but will test it out. Edit: After update to 6.9 all is working. The Realtek RTL8125 didn't seem to like Unraid 6.8. So for those of you who are also trying this SpaceInvaderOne's video "10Gb Home Network (P2) - Peer to Peer" is really all you need to watch. The setup portion starts at 8:10 assuming you already know how to in