OK, so far so good.
I rebooted, and deleted all docker containers by the exception of ddclient and wikiJs. Started up by adding the community plugin, waited 2 days and added docker-patch, 2 days later added fixed all things, at this point I am on almost 7 days with all that running and no crashes.
I will go ahead and close this, and as a solution I am going to blame the problem to docker, that after the move to the new hardware, something got corrupted and kept crashing the server.
Thank you all for the help.