Try to Update your Unraid to 6.12.8
"Problems due to Realtek network cards
Upgraded kernel fixes the deadlock issue with jumbo frames and the in-tree Realtek 8125 driver. However, we still recommend following the advice above regarding jumbo frames.
If you continue to have network stability issues and Tools > System Devices shows that you have a Realtek ethernet controller, grab the part number shown and search Community Apps to see if there is a Realtek vendor-supplied driver plugin for that device. For more information"
And if i am not wrong in the "Appstore" there are some Realtek-Drivers
You don't need to you can check if the CPU enters higher C-States with Powertop after unplugging those cards (care about your Data bevor doing that)