Thank you @itimpi. @jcofer555 guided me throught the process on Discord. I know have my Parity2 as Parity ❤️
It involved bringing down the array a couple of times and re-formatting the Disk2 drive from xfs to btrfs and back to xfs. The core is this first step though:
jcofer555
"Take a screenshot of the layout your have currently do a tools > new config and then go to the main page and reassign the disks how you want them and then let parity rebuild"