No worries, my bad also because I didn't read the entire post carefully, I missed that this was an array to array copy, so not related to what I was talking about.
The issue here is that since v6.8.x Unraid reverts to read/modify/write mode when activity is detected in multiple array disks, and unfortunatly this can't be turned off, I did ask Tom to only use this if write mode was set to auto, but no dice, it can't be disabled for now, so your writes are constantly going from reconstruct write to r/m/w, hence why parity and the destination disk also have reads, for the r/m/w part, if you downgrade to v6.7.x. you'll see the expected behavior, but speed won't likely be much better since disk4 will be constantly seeking for the data and parity calculation reads.