Update, i got a Quadro 410 and put it in the primary slot, put my 2060 in the secondary 16x slot. Booted and unraid saw the 410 as the primary card. Loaded the 2060 as secondary drive, and it still crashed when i started the VM.   Edit: I tested both the 410 and the 2060 in a seperate system and both are running properly.   Edit 2: After lots of troubleshooting, it still wont boot but at least its not crashing the unraid now. Syslogs and VM logs are not really showing anythin