Update! Looks like i have finally found the fix to my lock ups! It would appear to be a VM qemu issue. I changed my machine type to q35-4.2 from q35-5.1 and have not had a issue since. Now on 18 days up time. I had already change from i440fx to q35 but had both on 5.1 so i'm guessing that i440fx-4.2 would work fine in my case as well. I want to get 30 days up time to be sure, then i will try i440fx-4.2 see what happens.