second update:  Adding a new note as I've found another source for the slow speeds.   In my unraid settings my server address is set to 172.30.12.2 and I have several VLANs a la 6.4.  What I noticed yesterday is that when I'm on my main windows 10 VM on VLAN50 (172.35.12.x) the unraid server is accessible at 172.35.12.2 as well as 172.30.12.2 - not sure how or why.    Anyway, if I connect to my server via SSH from VLAN50 to 172.35.12.2 instead of 172.30.12.2 I get expected tr