@trurl Thank you so much for pointing me in the right direction.
I dont know in what fever dream state i decided to add those port forwarding options in my router but they have been nuked. I dont need remote access to my server other than through the My Server plugin and that is now set up properly.
I reset my DHCP by deleting config/network.cfg on my flash drive
I then reset my port numbers by editing the config/ident.cfg file on my flash drive.
Reading though the list of security best practices, I thankfully have done/follow most of them (with the obvious exception of my huge port forwarding mistake)
I now have access to my web GUI and have a lot more knowledge in my tool belt. Thanks again!!!