so i had the problem with catalina not seeing the TM share. I edited the smb.servce file but that gave me the share isn't capable error. so i did the 2nd thing in that thread and created the timemachine.service and that worked!
i'm able to select the time machine share and started a backup
BUT.....
it's been 24 hours and i've only copied 10GB out of 500GB. this will take almost 2 months to do a full backup? i've tried a few things i read about to speed it up l
the blue ones are Xpenology on the same hardware.
with small files it looks the synology software is 30times faster while on big files it is comparable though there is one great result i measured when copying from Mac to unraid on HDD i cannot explain