OP here, can't figure out which email I used (weird) so I made a fresh account.
So I'm more confused now.
Still not showing up in Linux sas2flash or anything else shows no LSI.
I put another card in the slot and it showed up so the slot is good.
I put the card in a windows machine and it showed up.
Booted same machine to Linux didn't show up.
Used megaRaid to update the FW it was 8.0 (IT) changed it to 16 (IT).
Still doesn't show up in Linux.
Kind of at a loss here what to try next.