dsjmoo16

So im really strugling to see what im doing wrong with wireguard. And it seems im not the only one but cant seem to fine a thread here about it. Ive set it up correctly following 3 diffirent videos hoping there was something I was missing and have had no luck. DuckDNS is set up, domain is entered in the VPNmanager peer is set up and I've scanned the qr on my phone in the app, port forwarding is set up for the currently used port for the ip address of the server. But when I turn on the connection my phone just totally stops sending or receiving anything. In the app I see data being sent but none being recived and unraid says "last handshake: not recived" with 0 in both upload and download so nothing is happening on the server side. I will say the newest video i found on this is 1 year old so has something changed to make this unusable? Really getting frustrated here seems eveytime I try to do something with this server info is hard to find or out of date to the point of not being usable