i tried msi interrupts but no luck, the logs piles up almost instantly. I hope someone can have a look at my logs in the first post. Based on an old space invaders video i add "vfio_iommu_type1.allow_unsafe_interrupts=1" to my Syslinux configuration: didnt fix it
tldr this is an example of the logs, full diagnostic in the first post
Windows 10.log.2.last200.txt