Dropping an update here for anyone who might be having stability issues with Ryzen and Unraid 6.12.8.
Memtested my RAM again and ensured 3 successful passes
Down clocked it from 3600 to 2400 (could do a bit higher per the document below but I decided to just run DDR4 default spec).
Disabled C-States on the processor (bios)
Set my Power Idle Control to typical (bios)
Removed both cache SSDs
Did a parity check to ensure data on the array
Changed Docker from macvlan to ipvlan per some stability issue reports on these forms and reddit
Used recovery tool to pull files off BTRFS cache drives
Rebuilt the cache drives from scratch ensuring that only critical data was corruption free for the rebuild
Overall I have been up for longer than I have been in two weeks. Will keep posting on this thread with any additional updates or recommendations. My best guess at this point is that due to some sort of corruption event from ether cstates, power, memory timings, or macvlan that caused btrfs, vm container or the docker container to become unstable thus rendering the UI to freeze and stop responding after 24-48 hours.