I thought i needed to choose the node the ram is connected to. Here is my cpu layout.
numactl --hardware
available: 4 nodes (0-3)
node 0 cpus: 0 1 2 3 4 5 24 25 26 27 28 29
node 0 size: 32123 MB
node 0 free: 1897 MB
node 1 cpus: 12 13 14 15 16 17 36 37 38 39 40 41
node 1 size: 0 MB
node 1 free: 0 MB
node 2 cpus: 6 7 8 9 10 11 30 31 32 33 34 35
node 2 size: 32227 MB
node 2 free: 406 MB
node 3 cpus: 18 19 20 21 22 23 42 43 44 45 46 47
node 3 size: 0 MB
node 3 free: 0 MB
node distances:
node 0 1 2 3
0: 10 16 16 16
1: 16 10 16 16
2: 16 16 10 16
3: 16 16 16 10
I couldn't use node 0 or 2 for VM because the PCI-E slot my GPU is on isnt connected to those I assume because the VM wouldny see the card if I had any other cores selected.