I'm curious about this - I have a SuperMicro X8SIL-F motherboard with 2x 8G ECC REG quad rank DIMMs. There are 4 memory slots, 2 per channel. If I put the DIMMs in slot 1 Channel A and Slot 2 Channel A (blue slots), the BIOS screen shows 8 GB and UnRAID shows basically the same as what tmoran000 posted. If however I put the dimms in Slot 2 Channel A and Slot 2 Channel B, the BIOS shows 16 GB and UNRAID shows 16 GB in the "allocated" box.
Of course the memory is no longer interleaved in this config, and the speed drops from 1066 to 800. But it appears I get access to all the ram. I'm wondering if the BIOS automatically enables memory sparing when 2 dimms of the same size / type are on the same channel? If so, I see no means to disable it like I do on Dell servers.
As an aside, the system won't boot with only 1 DIMM, or if I populate Slot 1 Channel A and Slot 1 Channel B.