back again....
so i upgraded to 6.12.8 and its now broken my networking, im not connected via micro usb for the iDRAC going over the LAN for it now i got that configured. I again have tried renaming the network.conf and network-rules.cfg to _old and recreate new ones still nothing it seems to be getting a 169 ip as if its not able to get a DHCP IP. Iv noticed that there are new lines in the network.cfg file since the upgrade. doing and ifconfig shows that the bond nic has the 169 IP is this right? i have also tried changing the ether numbers around and rebooting after each change nothing seems to be working. I also cant boot into GUI mode either still even after the upgrade.