I tried reflashing the modded bios again and it is still locking up when I try to access the aspm menu, I noticed my board is v1.2a not plain 1.2 so maybe this is the issue, I don't know if someone could maybe post a recording of how they get to the aspm settings so I can see if I'm missing something?
I also tested the m.2 to sata adapter with a 1x pcie adapter and it still worked, when it's in the m.2 slot it lights up before post but never again after, I was considering masking off the power disable pin to see if the bios is shutting it off for some reason, does this seem like a bad idea?