Sorry it took so long to work out. It looks like I have it working now. I ended up with the bonded "broadcast" mode. I now have a very healty green and orange flash on both nics in the server. When I patched my tv network to the "neighbors" network, I can still see the plex server and play a movie. All looks good. I will venture next door tomorrow and complete the plex setup on their tv's and report back. Thanks for all the help. If anyone needs any screenshots or logs let me know.