So I loaded up unraid and gave it a kick. Getting the parity drive going was very time consuming but it seems that is normal.
My biggest issue so far is write speeds. At the start it was saturating the 1gbit ethernet (haven't figured out link aggregation yet) but after about 1min it dropped down to ~30mb/s. After some googling i learned about the "turbo write" mode and clicked it on and it went up to about 80mb/s. Research told me this was due to how unraid does the parity calculations and that is the cause of the slow write speeds. I would like to max out my connection if I can.
I have a cache drive but it's not yet connected. I broke the sata power connector from mucking about in the node 304 case too much so I am getting a replacement today. Would cache drive increase the write performance or is there some other hardware issue?
For reference, my pool is 4x3tb wd reds, parity is a 6tb red, and my cache (not yet connected) is an 512gb intel 540 series SSD.
Otherwise my experience has been quite nice. The dashboard is far more functional/user friendly compared to my freenas setup. Seeing vitals is far easier. There was a lot of stuff on the freenas that i had no idea how to check so i just made the assumption that they were working. Loaded up tons of apps already and currently figuring out how to get torrents sorted out so i don't need to leave my main computer on. Thanks everyone for the help!