I personally avoid Linux as a desktop OS. I'm more of a Windows guy. Most of my Unraid server besides the storage portion is done in the Windows VM. That's why VirtioFS was so important to me. I prefer to run as much as I can under Windows and leave a few hands off things like Plex and Roon to Docker. Since Unraid manages the storage I have no need for Windows Server, so I just run Windows 11 Pro.
Hopefully the virtio-fs team could fix that issue for you.