I can't believe this... it literally came back out of nowhere. Everything is working as it should... I'm scratching my head but I'm just glad to say this fixed itself. God d****t UNRAID for that mind****...
Mark this solved and by means of divine intervention/UNRAID deciding to play nice. No explanation. I powered it back up after work today as a hail mary watched it show the IP it should and ask for my login on monitor. Said "OK...." not wanting to get too excited and then loaded the WebUI on another laptop connected to my network and "Son of a *****" there was my UNRAID login page. Logged in, started array and no errors. Didn't ask for a parity check or anything... Don't even know what to say. It just sat turned off for about a day since the last time I tried messing with it.
Now to catch up on new movies and series that released during that downtime. Incredible.