I've been getting lots of queue timeouts and subsequent crashes and NIC restarts with this driver when torturing it with iperf3 (at just Gigabit speeds). Played with EEE, Flow Control and Offload settings and it didn't make a difference.
Using one of the popular 11$ red-heatsinked Aliexpress RT8125B PCIe NICs which are also sold on Amazon.
Kernel driver r8169 seems to not exhibit this behaviour at all. Will be checking with 2.5gbit speeds once my switch arrives.