Found this link online: https://mediaserver8.blogspot.com/2020/07/problems-passing-through-gpu-to-unraid.html
This time when i changed to SeaBios, winner winner chicken dinner. I can get to the windows sign in. I know i had changed to seabios in prob attempt 2,22,122. But hey i just cant give in.
i cant sign into windows as the VM isnt connected to the internet. baby steps