yeah, i already read that ... but if i add the command
something very strange happens ... the server is in S3 -> i send a WOL or press the button -> the server comes back so life, the disks spin up -> on the webinterface, the array is shown as stopped, but the button says "Stop" not "Start", the array is ready for edit (i could reassign disks etc, so i think its stopped), and then, some seconds later, the server shuts down, and that all on its alone, i did nothing after wake up the system