Hello,
The '2020-01-12T11:04:22.026175Z qemu-system-x86_64: vfio_region_write(0000:02:00.0:region1+0x12cc60, 0x0,8) failed: Device or resource busy' lines indicate something else has hold of the GPU.
Maybe unRAID itself?
Try running the following in a terminal prior to booting the VM:
echo 0 > /sys/class/vtconsole/vtcon0/bind
echo 0 > /sys/class/vtconsole/vtcon1/bind
echo efi-framebuffer.0 > /sys/bus/platform/drivers/efi-framebuffer/unbind
Ensure you have your vBIOS set correctly as per the reply above. You will likely lose display after running the above commands - you might need to use your phone or a tablet on the same network to start the VM and test this.
Cheers,
Ross.