I have been watching this thread for a while since I am having the same errors and behaviour. I experimented recently with disabling all plugins via safe mode. All of my dockers still running, everything else normal, just zero plugins.
I was able to hit 6 days of uptime with no issues. I restarted and turned off safe mode and the issue came back, 1 day of uptime before the server was unresponsive.
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