Thank you, I appreciate you looking into it.
I tried removing connect first with no change. I have the same result whether exit node is enabled or not, as well. Also, no matter what way I try connecting, via local IP, Tailscale IP, or dns name I still cannot connect to anything hosted on the server IP.
What's funny is I have the opposite problem with wireguard. I can't get out, only have access to internal resources which is the whole reason I'm trying Tailscale.