Missing from where?
Unless we get to a bare metal Unraid we can't determine where the issue is.
I don't see that in the diagnostics. Only dev1 and dev2 are unassigned. I find it hard to believe that dynamix is creating unassigned disks out of the clear blue. It uses the vars dev array to display the unassigned disks.
I need the diagnostics so I can see the udev and hotplug activity.
You need to slow down and do one thing at a time. It's hard for me to follow when you do things and just give me snippets of logs and files. I can't follow and there are some things I want to try at each step.
So let's get back to the issue with the parity disk showing as unassigned. How did you create that issue, and is it repeatable? Create it again if you can, then give me diagnostics and pause there so I can have you do some things.