Ok, now unraid are finding it.. a little embarrassing... i was using the wrong pci-e socket in conjunction with my cpu, my mobo can have 2 and it has 3 pci-e socket per cpu and i was 100% sure that it was in the correct socket, and by chance i saw it when i was glancing over the manual... now i will check and see if i can get the transcoding to work with emby!