BTW you can find out the actual device with:
dmsetup info /dev/dm-X
If it's an array device it will show md1 for disk1, md2 for disk2, etc, if it's a pool device it will show sdX1 or nvmeXn1p1, then just check the main page to find out which pool it belongs to.
This is because you're using encryption, they are in from dm-0, which is disk1, dm-1 is disk-2 and so on, also just noticed that at one time you disk14 wasn't mounting, so cache was dm-13, after that disk14 was mounting so cache is now dm-14.
This is usually hardware related, it can usually be suppressed with this:
https://forums.unraid.net/topic/111161-pcie-errors/?do=findComment&comment=1013378
Feb 3 11:22:12 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata2.00: status: { DRDY }
Feb 3 11:22:12 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata2: hard resetting link
Feb 3 11:22:13 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata2: SATA link down (SStatus 0 SControl 300)
Feb 3 11:22:13 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata2: hard resetting link
Feb 3 11:22:22 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata1: softreset failed (1st FIS failed)
Feb 3 11:22:22 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata1: hard resetting link
Feb 3 11:22:23 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata2: softreset failed (1st FIS failed)
Feb 3 11:22:23 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata2: hard resetting link
Feb 3 11:22:24 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata2: SATA link up 6.0 Gbps (SStatus 133 SControl 300)
Feb 3 11:22:24 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata2.00: configured for UDMA/133
Feb 3 11:22:24 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata2: EH complete
...
Feb 3 11:25:26 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata1: SATA link down (SStatus 0 SControl 310)
Feb 3 11:25:26 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata1: hard resetting link
Feb 3 11:25:36 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata1: softreset failed (1st FIS failed)
Feb 3 11:25:36 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata1: hard resetting link
Feb 3 11:25:37 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata1: SATA link up 1.5 Gbps (SStatus 113 SControl 310)
Feb 3 11:25:37 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata1.00: configured for UDMA/33
Feb 3 11:25:37 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata1: EH complete
Feb 3 11:27:53 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata43.00: exception Emask 0x10 SAct 0x0 SErr 0x4010000 action 0xe frozen
Feb 3 11:27:53 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata43.00: irq_stat 0x80400040, connection status changed
Feb 3 11:27:53 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata43: SError: { PHYRdyChg DevExch }
Feb 3 11:27:53 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata43.00: failed command: READ DMA EXT
Feb 3 11:27:53 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata43.00: cmd 25/00:40:08:c5:55/00:05:00:00:00/e0 tag 23 dma 688128 in
Feb 3 11:27:53 HarryPotter2 kernel: res 50/00:00:07:c5:55/00:00:00:00:00/e0 Emask 0x10 (ATA bus error)
Feb 3 11:27:53 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata43.00: status: { DRDY }
Feb 3 11:27:53 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata43: hard resetting link
Feb 3 11:27:58 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata43: link is slow to respond, please be patient (ready=0)
Feb 3 11:28:03 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata43: COMRESET failed (errno=-16)
Feb 3 11:28:03 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata43: hard resetting link
Feb 3 11:28:07 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata43: SATA link up 6.0 Gbps (SStatus 133 SControl 310)
Feb 3 11:28:08 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata43.00: configured for UDMA/33
Feb 3 11:28:08 HarryPotter2 kernel: ata43: EH complete
Constant errors in multiple disks, this is usually a power/connection problem.
Not a big deal, it's just a warning, it appears to be caused by the UD plugin, reboot in safe mode if there's no more warning you can post in the UD support thread to see if anything can be done about it.
PCIe 2.0 models will also work and still have enough bandwidth for 8 disks, so if you can get one much cheaper it's a valid option.
Yes, if it's flashed to LSI IT mode like mentioned in the listing.
That's and older PCIe 2.0 model, but still a good option if it's cheaper.
The one I mentioned is available in Europe, got a few from Amazon.es, nobrand direct from China might be OK, might not, once got one, also an Asmedia, that kept giving CRC errors.
Yes, though it's not just the chip that's important, rest of the controller might be garbage, try to stick with known quality models, e,g,:
https://www.sybausa.com/index.php?route=product/product&product_id=151
That looks normal to me for 1 year, previous Unraid releases had a problem with excessive writes, IIRC one of my cache SSDs at some point was writing about 3TB/Day, most of the reason it has now close to 1PB total writes.
Around that yes, you can easily calculate based on this attribute:
241 Total_LBAs_Written -O--CK 099 099 000 - 101015376296
101015376296 x 512 (sector size) = 51 719 872 663 552 bytes, or 47.04 TiB