I'm sorry, so what is the problem exactly? If you want to attempt to recover data form am unmountable btrfs disk I need diags after trying to mount it.
What is crashing, the server? I though this was about an unmountable disk, again I'm sorry I didn't read the entire thread, so please do a quick summary if there are other issues.
Also this is not a good sign:
Aug 3 13:26:08 unRAID kernel: BTRFS info (device md2): bdev /dev/md2 errs: wr 0, rd 0, flush 0, corrupt 1, gen 0
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Aug 3 13:26:21 unRAID kernel: BTRFS info (device md3): bdev /dev/md3 errs: wr 0, rd 0, flush 0, corrupt 435370, gen 0
Both disks 2 and 3 are showing corruption errors, this is usually data corruption caused by a hardware problem, like bad RAM, it would be a good idea to run memtest.