That's expected, once a disk gets disable it stays disable, you can still try to re-sync the new parity with that disk, but do it in maintenance mode to avoid any more changes.
-Tools -> New Config -> Retain current configuration: All -> Apply
-Check all assignments are correct
-check the "maintenance mode" checkbox and start the array, depending on what Unraid release you're using you might need to click "sync" to begin the parity sync, if there are errors again post diags.