For now only parity2 was out of sync, this suggests it's not a data disk issue or RAM, or both parity drives would be out of sync, I would start by replacing the Asmedia controller using port multipliers, it's generating some ATA errors and it's also not good for performance, and coincidentally or not, parity2 is connected there, if you use a recommended controller it should also improve performance, last check took almost 3 days which is a lot more than it could be, though you were using the array.
P.S. please disable mover logging unless needed to troubleshoot the mover, or it generates a lot of log spam.