That's about it. You can skip step 8 😄
You can skip steps 2,3,4 if you don't write any new data to your server while doing this. In fact, it's probably simpler if you don't exclude any disks globally then there won't be any confusion if you rearrange things.
And the unBALANCE plugin might be an easier way to accomplish step 5. I haven't looked at that video but I know some configurations of Krusader won't let you work directly with the disks, which is what you need to do here. You should never work with user shares and disks at the same time or you could lose data.
As for step 10 and your last question, yes you can rearrange the DATA disks. The main thing you MUST NOT do is assign a data disk to the parity slot since it would be overwritten.
Some people are afraid New Config wipes out everything they have done. The only thing it will do is allow you to change your disk assignments, and it won't even write anything except (optionally) parity. And you do have to rebuild parity when removing disks.
Just in case, if it offers to format anything at any point, DON'T.