Since you haven't replied with your diagnostics, I am going to give you some more information.
A disabled disk and an unmounted (or unmountable) disk, are not at all the same thing. A disabled data disk is usually emulated from the parity calculation, and the emulated disk is usually mounted even though the disabled disk is no longer being used.
But, parity is never mounted, whether or not it is disabled, because parity has no filesystem.
Your ideas:
Replacing one of the other disks won't fix disabled parity, and you can't even rebuild a replacement anyway because parity is disabled.
Basically the same as 1.
Closest to the right idea, but not clear there is anything wrong with the existing disk. Likely the solution is to rebuild parity, either to the same or a new disk, but can't say for sure without more information (your diagnostics)
After you get parity enabled again you can consider replacing other drives. We will have to wait and see.
PLEASE don't do anything without further advice.